Conversations With Kids: Idols

Idols

Conversations with Kids – Week 15 For parents and guardians where we give you prompts so that you can have more meaningful conversations with your children to help them build key characteristics such as mental toughness, resilience, confidence, creativity, focus and so on.   A Question for your Kids Would you like to be Lionel Messi? …

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Conversations With Kids: Gratitude

Gratitude

Conversations with Kids – Week 14 For parents and guardians where we give you prompts so that you can have more meaningful conversations with your children to help them build key characteristics such as mental toughness, resilience, confidence, creativity, focus and so on. A Question for your Kids Why is “thank you” a wonderful word? …

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How Do I Help My Children Deal With Strong Emotions?

EP 149 Episode Cover David Charlton

How Do I Help My Children Deal With Strong Emotions?

David Charlton

By working with David Charlton, you and your organisation will be better equipped to rise to modern day challenges and better informed to thrive on and off the pitch, course or court.  Where he inspires individuals and teams to:

  • Cope with pressure and challenges more effectively
  • Maintain positive mental health
  • Compete with confidence more often
  • Manage your emotions better
  • Improve your commitments levels

David is a Mental Toughness Practitioner, as well as a Health Care and Professions Council (HCPC) Registered Sport and Exercise Psychologist.  He has successfully supported athletes, teams and organisations for over 10 years in order to ensure that they perform at their maximum more often.

He has a comprehensive knowledge around the development of Mental Toughness, a plastic personality trait, which determines or limits people to deal effectively with change, challenges and stressors. In today’s climate, during the Coronavirus pandemic this quality is becoming more and more valuable to individuals, teams and organisations. 

In this short solo episode, I answer a popular question that we get asked by sporting parents – how do I help my children deal with strong emotions?

When playing sport, children’s lives are littered with challenges and difficulties including; being dropped from squads or teams, losing form or skills, being injured and the recovery period, selection bias, being bullied, being played out of position, and dealing with making mistakes and losing, as well as many more.   I go on to share 7 suggestions for parents that you may find helpful. 

Key Learnings

  1. Think about what you want to say. 
  2. Find a quiet moment. 
  3. Find out what they know. 
  4. Share your feelings with your child.
  5. Tell the truth. 
  6. Say “I don’t know.”
  7. Take good care of yourself

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Relevant Podcast Episodes

Ep074: David Charlton – How Can I Make My Child Feel Confident?

Ep112: David Charlton – How to Deal with Physical Insecurities as a Young Athlete

Ep122: Prof Camilla Knight – Helping Your Children Get The Most From Their Sporting Experiences

Ep145: David Charlton – How Can I Help My Children Who Suffer With Nerves Before They Compete?

Other Relevant Blogs and Resources

5 Tips for Parents To Help Their Children Perform with Confidence

Helping Young Athletes Manage Emotions

Does Your Child Worry Too Much About What Others Think?

My Child Can’t Find “The Zone”

Communicating with Children in Sport

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David Charlton

Best Wishes 

David Charlton

Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly. 

E: info@sport-excellence.co.uk

Conversations With Kids: Bravery

Bravery

Conversations with Kids – Week 13 For parents and guardians where we give you prompts so that you can have more meaningful conversations with your children to help them build key characteristics such as mental toughness, resilience, confidence, creativity, focus and so on.   A Question for your Kids What animal do you see when you

How to Build Your Mental Toughness Through Skiing

EP 148 Episode Cover Derek Tate

How to Build Your Mental Toughness Through Skiing

Derek Tate

Derek Tate has spent over 35 years involved teaching and coaching. The sport of Alpine skiing has been both the passion and the career over this time. His qualifications include the British Association of Snowsport Instructors International Ski Teacher Diploma BASI Level 4), PG Diploma in Sports Coaching and MSc Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP). In addition to teaching skiers of all levels, he educates and examines snowsport instructors, and offers mental skills and mental health coaching to individuals online and in person. He has also authored ‘Learn, Enjoy, Flow & Grow’ and ‘Six Steps for Training the Mind’.

Our guest today is Derek Tate, an experienced ski coach and author.  We go on to discuss his book Six Steps for Training the Mind as well as mental toughness in snowsports.  Derek goes on to share insights into differences in mindset between recreational and elite skiers, the role of fear, pushing boundaries and comfort zones, the impact of self-talk, getting into a flow state and a whole lot more. 

  • Fear is a common emotion for both recreational and elite skiers.
  • The environment and weather on the slopes changes frequently making for unique challenges.
  • Mental toughness when skiing is the ability to navigate, manage and overcome self-doubt, worries, concerns and circumstances that prevent you from succeeding without compromising your well-being.
  • If mental skills were trained in the same way as physical skills or technical skills, there’d be a lot more people who are better prepared when skiing.
  • Many people are distracted by the conversation they have with themselves.
  • Mindfulness meditation and gratitude are very helpful skills skiers can benefit from learning.
  • Getting into a flow state is hugely beneficial for your mental health.

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Helpful Podcast Episodes

Ep046: Kate Mackay – Why Snowboarding is a Metaphor for Life

Ep048: Natalie Hurdley – How to Build Mental Toughness through Powerlifting

Ep066: Marilyn Okoro – Mental Health and Resilience: Lessons from an Olympic Medalist

Ep110: Dan Steele – How to Increase Mental Fortitude: Secrets from an Olympian

Ep140: Chris Cook – How to Improve Your Mental Strength: Secrets from an Olympian

Other Useful Resources

Blog – Make Better Decisions to Help Your Sport Performance

Blog – Coach Development: Helping Athletes Overcome Fear of Failure

Blog – Do You Really Want to Succeed

Blog – 12 Reasons Why You Won’t Achieve Your Potential

Blog: 9 Tips for Children from Olympians

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David Charlton

Best Wishes 

David Charlton

Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly. 

E: info@sport-excellence.co.uk